We're not, really, which is part of the problem. It's a lot more subtle, like prompts on the kink meme focused on Jack's age and rants on Tumblr about why it shouldn't matter, so would people quit with the pedophile vibes, and frustrated author's notes about how other people are doing the furry/xenophile wrong and comments on stories about how much they love finally finding a story where Pitch is acting like an actual villain and not just some dark rapist.

About two-thirds of the people involved, at a guess, don't tend to do meta or discuss things like this, unfortunately, because I'd love to start a meta discussion on where furry ends, xenophile begins, and where Bunnymund fits on the scale.